Finding Myself Again

When you're in such a long term relationship you kind of become bound to one another. It was especially tough for my ex and myself because we worked together, lived together and spent all our free time together. I haven't had "alone time" in SO long. Its been affecting me. But i think that's okay- its part of the grieving process. But recently i have been LOVING it. Honestly there is nothing better than just being able to be your true self and not having to worry that your actions and moods are directly affecting someone else. This week i am channeling my inner boss-bitch and i am getting that bread! It feels so good to walk past a cute boy and not have to avoid eye contact. Haha. The small things .Really wish South Africa's alcohol ban would lift though. I need to drink wine in the bath. Its called self care- read about it.